Cost of Living Guide

Budgets: Why Two People Spend Differently

Two people in the same city can spend vastly different amounts. Lifestyle, priorities, and circumstances create wide variation. Understanding these factors helps you build a budget that fits your situation, not someone else's.

Last reviewed: January 2026

Research summary for planning purposes. Not legal, tax, or financial advice. Verify with official sources.

This page explains why personal budgets vary so much between individuals.

  • Why asking 'how much do you spend?' gives unhelpful answers
  • Lifestyle factors that most affect spending
  • How priorities create different spending patterns
  • Why averages do not predict your costs
  • How to identify your own spending drivers

Key tradeoffs

Important considerations that affect most people in this situation.

Lower-Cost Lifestyle Choices

  • Cooking at home most meals
  • Living outside central areas
  • Using public transit
  • Limited entertainment spending

Higher-Cost Lifestyle Choices

  • Eating out frequently
  • Central or premium locations
  • Car ownership or taxis
  • Active social and travel life

Same city, very different costs

One person in Barcelona might spend €1,500 monthly. Another spends €3,500. Both consider their spending 'normal.'

The difference is not waste or efficiency. It is lifestyle, priorities, and circumstances. Neither is right or wrong.

When someone tells you what they spend, they are describing their life, not yours. The number may not transfer.

Housing drives the biggest variation

Rent is typically the largest expense. And it varies enormously. A shared apartment in the suburbs costs a fraction of a central one-bedroom.

Location within a city matters as much as the city itself. Neighborhood choice alone can double or halve your rent.

Furnished versus unfurnished, apartment size, and building quality all shift costs. Small differences in standards create large differences in rent.

Food spending ranges widely by habit

Cooking at home costs a fraction of eating out. Someone who cooks every meal might spend €200 monthly on food. Someone who eats out daily might spend €600 or more.

Grocery prices also vary. Budget supermarkets versus premium stores. Local markets versus imported goods. These choices multiply.

Social dining adds up. Meals with friends, drinks, coffee culture. These are quality of life expenses that vary by personality and social situation.

Transport depends on where and how you live

Living centrally often means lower transport costs. Walking or short transit trips. Living further out may save rent but add commute costs.

Car ownership changes everything. Insurance, fuel, parking, maintenance. These costs can exceed the rent savings from living further out.

Remote workers who rarely commute have different transport needs than daily office workers. Your work situation shapes this category.

Healthcare costs depend on your situation

A healthy 25-year-old and a 55-year-old with ongoing conditions face different healthcare costs. Age and health status matter.

Insurance requirements vary by visa type. Some visas require private insurance. Others give access to public systems. This is not optional.

Out-of-pocket costs for dental, vision, and prescriptions add up differently for different people. Budget based on your health needs.

Entertainment and social life

This category shows the widest variation in discretionary spending.

Some people are content with low-cost activities. Walking, free museums, home cooking with friends. Others want restaurants, concerts, and nightlife.

Neither is better. But the cost difference is substantial. What feels like 'normal social life' varies by person and background.

Travel and trips add to this category. Weekend getaways, visits home, exploring the region. Some people budget heavily here. Others do not.

Work situation affects spending

Remote workers may have lower commute costs but higher home office expenses. Internet quality and workspace matter more.

Office workers may have coffee, lunch, and clothing costs that home workers avoid. But they may also have access to subsidized benefits.

Income source currency matters. Earning in a strong currency while spending in a weaker one stretches budgets. The reverse squeezes them.

Family and dependents multiply costs

A single person and a family of four have completely different budgets. Housing needs differ. Food costs differ. Everything scales.

Children add education, childcare, activities, and healthcare costs. These are major line items that single people do not face.

Pet ownership also adds costs that pet-free households skip. Veterinary care, food, and housing restrictions all factor in.

Irregular expenses throw off monthly averages

Some costs do not happen monthly but still matter.

Monthly budgets miss these. But they are real costs that affect your overall financial picture.

Building a buffer for irregular expenses is more realistic than ignoring them.

  • Annual insurance premiums
  • Visa renewal fees
  • Trips home to visit family
  • Seasonal expenses (heating in winter, cooling in summer)
  • Major purchases (electronics, furniture replacement)
  • Emergency repairs or medical events

Building a budget that fits you

Track your current spending before moving. You are unlikely to change all your habits. Your patterns provide a starting point.

Identify what matters most to you. If food quality is important, budget more for food. If location matters, budget more for rent.

Use ranges, not single numbers. Your actual costs will vary month to month. A range accounts for this reality.

  • Track current spending for 2-3 months
  • Identify non-negotiable expenses for you
  • Research costs for your specific priorities
  • Build in buffer for unexpected expenses
  • Plan for irregular annual costs

Common pitfalls

Issues that frequently catch people off guard in this area.

Expecting to match someone else's budget exactly
Ignoring lifestyle differences when comparing costs
Underestimating how much eating out adds up
Assuming you will change spending habits completely
Not accounting for travel home or visitors
Forgetting irregular but significant expenses
Planning based on best-case scenario only

Next steps

Continue your research with these related guides.

Sources & references

Budget Research References

  • Consumer spending surveys – Spending variation data
  • Personal finance research – Budget methodology

Practical References

  • Expat community experience – Real budget examples and variations
  • Cost tracking tools – Personal expense data patterns

Information gathered from these sources as of January 2026. Requirements and procedures may change.

Important: This content is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, tax, financial, or medical advice. Requirements, procedures, and costs can change. Always verify current information with official government sources and consult qualified professionals for advice specific to your circumstances.